Do you think your friend has a drug problem? Working up the courage to confront a friend about his or her drug use or drinking is very difficult. In fact, it may be one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do. But part of being a good friend is recognizing when your friend needs help- even if it wasn’t asked for. Here are some tips on talking to your friend:

• Start by telling your friend how much he/she means to you and that you are worried about her.
• Give him/her examples of when his/her drug use or drinking has caused problems or affected you or others.
• Let him/her know that you want to help and tell him/her what you will do for her.
• Discuss this issue when your friend is not high or drunk.
• If you aren’t comfortable having this conversation with your friend by yourself, get some
  other friends to help you out- there’s safety and support in numbers. Be careful not to “gang up” on your friend.
• Try talking to an adult that you trust before talking to your friend. There are many people that can help you figure out the best approach.
• If you are not comfortable talking with your friend face-to-face, try writing a note, texting, or an e-mail.

Remember that talking with your friend is only the first step. It may take several
conversations before he or she understands how serious you are about their drug use or drinking. Don’t give up if he or she doesn’t stop after your first conversation. Your friend may need additional help to face his or her drug or drinking problem, like talking to a counselor or getting treatment.
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Information retrieved from www.freevibe.com